You want to make sure that you let your DJ or MC know how you would like the announcements of the dances to be done. You may decide that you want to do your father/daughter dance with your stepfather, or you may want to begin the dance with your father and then let your stepfather cut in mid song. It is your choice who you want to have this honor, but be careful and avoid hurting anyone’s feelings. When it comes the time for parent dance, invite both of your parents on the dance floor with their spouses or dates.
You can also chose to skip of this dance when considering divorced parents wedding dance, if you feel it is stressed or unnecessary drama on your big day. You can easily explain this to your DJ or MC, so they know to simply skip of the father/daughter or parent dance.