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African American wedding traditions are interesting and meaningful to be included in your wedding. From jumping the broom to Kente cloth, keep the traditions alive in your wedding.
Shinto is the ethnic religion in Japan and it has a huge impact on the country's culture and ceremonial traditions. Even today, more than 79% of Japanese people still belong to Shinto temples. Still, a large majority of people in and even outside of Japan are not very familiar with how the religion influences different ceremonies and events in Japan. The same is the case with Japanese wedding traditions that may come as a surprise to many. Keep reading to learn more about some interesting wedding traditions in Japan.
Called the yuino in Japanese, the betrothal ceremony is an exchange of symbolic gifts between the bride's and groom's families. The most popular gifts are a seaweed called konbu, which refers to "child-bearing woman"; a long piece of hemp in white that represents the wish that both husband and wife will grow old together; and a folding fan that spreads and indicates future growth and wealth. The most common gifts also include a hakama for the groom and an obi for the bride. One of the main gifts in this ceremony is money, which can be $5,000 or more – the money is offered in a shugi-bukuro, a special envelope with gold and silver strings. Ornate rice-paper envelopes are also used to give other gifts.
Since most Japanese weddings take place in Shinto temples, the venues are always quite attractive. These locations also feature religious iconography that give the whole function a special feel. Some of the most common are water pavilions, stone dogs, and tall red gates that symbolize the division between the corporeal and spiritual worlds.
This sake sharing ceremony is common for Buddhists as well as Shinto Japanese weddings. It is among the most interesting Japanese wedding traditions for outsiders. There will be three stacked cups of sake and both bride and groom have to drink taking three sips. "Three, three, nine times" – just as the name San-San-Kudo suggests. Ku or 9 means good luck in Japanese culture. So, some believe that the three sips each time represent love, wisdom, and happiness, while others believe they represent earth, heaven, and mankind. Some believe they represent the three couples – the bride and groom, the groom's parents, and the bride's parents. However, some believe they represent the biggest human flaws, which are passion, hatred, and ignorance, which the couple will overcome together in life.
Something that will always fascinate you in a Japanese wedding is the wedding wardrobe. It is all in white – at least most of the time. The country's national colors are red and white, and you will notice these same colors in Japanese weddings. While a bride's gown may be of delicate silk or some other material, the color is usually white. Sleek evening gowns may come as a surprise to you, but they are quite common. Grooms usually opt for black – they may wear a suit or kimono. At some Japanese weddings, brides wear a white silk hood over the bun in their hair – that silk headdress is called a wataboshi and is one of the oldest Japanese wedding traditions. The hood represents humility and modesty.
Wedding speeches hold a great place of importance in Japanese wedding ceremonies. Family, friends, teachers, colleagues, and other relatives stand in line and wait for their turn to wish the couple well. These speeches can be moralistic tales about marriage, but they can also be heartfelt messages of love from family and friends.
As you may have gathered, Japanese wedding traditions are often about exchanging gifts. There will be loads of presents for the parents of both the bride and groom. The most common gifts are a toast for the parents, bouquets of flowers, and a personal letter of thanks and love. These simple gestures make Japanese weddings very intimate and special.
Oh, yes! Japanese weddings have a lot available for the guests as well. Brides usually spend up to $50 or even more on favors for their guests. These favors might be a lace bag of sweet almonds and much more.
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